Hey you…not sure about everything that’s going on..but I do know that you need to relax. I’m not sure who has betrayed you in the past..but I know that paigie will not. Men and women both should be able to have friends of the opposite sex. Jealousy is not a healthy emotion…take a few deep breaths…and realize that she is crazy about you…but she also has friends and a life outside of you. It’s unfair of either of you to ask the other to give up that part of your lives. Arguing and fighting doesn’t solve anything…honest ..calm conversations do. You and she are both going to have to accept the fact that you both have friends…both male and female…and learn to trust one another. It’s healthy for your relationship to spend time with other people …don’t become consumed in each other..love each other and enjoy your lives . Big hug to you…